It has been said that the only thing harder than being an addict is loving one. It can be particularly difficult for a parent to bring a child into the world, full of hopes and dreams about their future, and then watch them spiral down into addiction. Having someone in your life who struggles with substance abuse is never easy, no matter the circumstances, the relationship, or their age. Estate planning often involves dealing with difficult situations. Putting off thinking about these decisions is not the solution. By delaying making plans for how best to care for an addicted loved one when you are no longer around, you risk losing an opportunity and control that can further complicate matters.
Approximately 17 percent of Americans over the age of 12 had a substance use disorder in 2022, according to the latest National Survey on Drug Use and Health. That is equivalent to 48.7 million people, including 29.5 million who have an alcohol use disorder, 27.2 million who have a drug use disorder, and 8 million who had both alcohol and drug use disorders. Despite these grim statistics, the good news is that life after addiction is not just possible—it is the norm. Most people experiencing alcohol and drug addiction recover, survive, and go on to live full, healthy lives. A study from the Centers for Disease Control and the National Institute on Drug Abuse found that three out of four addicts eventually enter recovery.
Treatment and recovery services are critical to successful addiction recovery. Financial barriers to these services are one reason why people struggling with substance abuse go untreated. Family members of addicts might be in a position to provide them with money and material support but worry that doing so will be counterproductive.
There is not a one-size-fits-all solution for assisting a loved one who is dealing with substance abuse. What most experts agree on, though, is that you cannot force someone to undergo treatment. Family members can encourage recovery, but ultimately, the decision to seek therapy is up to the individual. When considering including an addicted loved one in an estate plan, it is useful to remember that estate planning can be uniquely tailored to the needs of each family and individual. Here are some points to keep in mind as you try to fit a drug- or alcohol-dependent person into your plan:
A trust does not guarantee that an addicted person will be protected from their own bad decisions, but it can be structured in a way that helps ensure that an inheritance is used to their benefit and not to their detriment.
A trust allows you—the trustmaker—to set the terms for how the beneficiaries may use and have access to trust funds. The terms can be as specific as you want and may include provisions specifically designed to tackle addiction. For example, the trust could include the following types of terms:
Selecting a trustee is just as crucial as the provisions of a trust created for a beneficiary who suffers from addiction. The trustee should be somebody who will act in the best interests of the beneficiary while striving to preserve family harmony. When selecting a trustee, consider the following:
A final consideration about planning for an addicted loved one is what can happen if you fail to plan. Without an estate plan, the unknowns can be greater—and more consequential. The court will rely on state law to determine who gets your money and property, how much they will receive, and when they receive it. Your loved one may end up with a lump sum of money and no restrictions. This default plan does not address the underlying addiction problem. And if your loved one is not a family member, they may not receive anything from you at all if you do not put an estate plan in place.
You might feel torn between a desire to help an addict in your life and ensuring that your hard-earned money is put to its best use after you have passed away. Or maybe you have been your loved one’s rock, helping them stay sober and avoid relapse, and want to continue doing everything you can for them for as long as you can. Addiction is often a lifelong struggle. To make a plan that provides addiction assistance for someone you care about, even after you have passed away, contact our estate planning attorneys in Reno.